WHEN LOVE ENDS

IT’S HARD TO GET USED to the idea, but sometimes it’s like that. Love ends, and it seems like how relationship ends more frequently, families torn apart, and 3rd parties gets in the way. Love ends, and we feel lost. What do we do ? It is better to wait until the leave you, or should you end the relationship yourself ? Either position is not easy. It’s always hard to leave or need to leave something that made you happy, to see how time and strength rans out and just couldn’t hold 2 people together who thought they were inseparable. But holding onto something just because of what it used to be is not a good idea.

MAKING A DECISION TO END a relationship will always be tough. You have to evaluate the pros and cons before doing it. Has anything changed ? Is there a solution ? Do you want to fix it or do you no longer want to fight for your relationship ? Is it because of exhaustion or lack of desire ? Do you think you deserve better ? Asking and answering these questions will help you reflect, and perhaps makes yourself a little more secure before making a decision that you may not be 100% on, but is right for you where you are right now.

IMPULSIVENESS, ANGER AND SADNESS do not lead to a good decision. That’s why you have to wait and reflect. Give yourself sometime and allow yourself to feel in order to choose well.


INSIDE A PARADIGM OF PARTING

IN A RELATIONSHIP, THE 2 OF YOU makes decisions, the 2 of you works and the 2 of you creates magic between and for both of you. When you want to get something back, and both of you works on the same direction to build something together, each of you puts your best effort in, because you both want to have and know that there is still love. Here, you can get your love back. We know that love ends, but it only happens when both or one of the 2 stops trying and working on the relationship. If you think there is something still to fight, do it. If you still want it, keep trying. Don’t feel guilty about having not tried hard enough.

LOVE GOES THROUGH STAGES, and moving to a different stage from where you started may makes you think that love has ended. It’s a common mistake. After all, the honeymoon stage is amazing, but it’s not entirely real. We need to know our partner as they really are. Only then we will have the chance to truly love them. Love may end, and if it does, you’ll have to move on. Making the decision to end a relationship maybe really hard. But the pain we feel maybe temporary after a break up. In a while we’ll see everything we were missing out on by staying with someone who no longer made us happy.


WITHOUT HAVING DESPAIR

LOVE IS A LONG AND SOMETIMES complicated road. THAT’S WHY ENDING THE RELATIONSHIP MEANS KEEPING A LITTLE LOVE BETWEEN THE 2 OF YOU—- BUT IN A DIFFERENT WAY. SOMETIMES, TRYING TOO HARD TO KEEP SOMETHING TOGETHER THAT HAS ALREADY ENDED CAN END UP BREAKING YOU. ALLOW YOURSELF SOMETIME TO REFLECT AND ASK YOURSELF: DO YOU REALLY WANT TO HAVE A FUTURE WITH THE PERSON YOU’RE WITH TODAY ?… ✍ 👍 💥 🌟 ✨ ✅