A LOVE INVULNERABLE

INFRAGILITY WHILE BEING IN LOVE


HAVING A LOVE SO STRONG

WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE WHOLEHEARTEDLY, you will give them your all, inside and out. You will make them see your true self and that’s the exact moment when you give yourself to them, without realizing that they could break your heart in a second. Is it possible to love someone so deep it makes you stronger instead of feeling fragile ? We all want to love and feel strong at the same time. We all want the kind of love which never breaks us into parts. The kind of love which feels secure and full of answers instead of doubts. The kind of love which makes us feels content for just being ourselves, the kind of love which makes us feels authentic and honest.

IT MAKES YOU BRAVE ENOUGH to speak your heart out and makes you feel carefree. It makes you feel careless, because you will be attached without the feeling of being chained; a real love ignites your soul and nourishes it with compassion. Loving someone without being vulnerable means that you sincerely makes yourself as their home, without expecting them to be yours. It happens when you realize that you are your own home and you don’t need their presence to feel secure. It happens when you let the door open for them and let them leave without hoping that they will come back. It happens when you support them reach their highest goals, without expecting them to thank you in the end.


EMPOWERING LOVE INVULNERABILITY

LOVING SOMEONE WITHOUT being vulnerable means that you generally cares for their happiness, without making their actions towards you becomes your happiness. It happens when you send prayers without expecting them to do the same. It happens when you help them get up back again after failures without hoping that they will catch you when you fall. It happens when you remember their special days and feel OKAY if they don’t remember yours.

LOVING SOMEONE WITHOUT being vulnerable, means that you let them choose to whom they will give their heart. It happens you fully realize that you can’t make people stay and they have the right to leave. It happens when you believe that the affections should be given freely without being asked. It happens when you know the right people will always find their way back to you and vice versa. Loving someone without vulnerable, means that you always prepare yourself to let them go.


LOVING SOMEONE AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF

LOVING SOMEONE WITHOUT being vulnerable only happens when you don’t expect any reciprocation from the other person. The only thing that you do for them is loving and giving, without having any expectations. As bitter as it sounds, sometimes your expectation is the only thing that breaks your heart apart. You are the one who hurts your own heart because you expect them to love you the same way you love them.

YOU NEED TO ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE THE ONE WHO CONTROLS YOUR OWN FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS. WHEN YOU WANT TO LOVE, LOVE AS DEEPLY AS POSSIBLY CAN, BUT DON’T BE BLINDED BY EMOTIONS AND DON’T FORGET TO KEEP YOUR EXPECTATIONS ON GUARD. REMEMBER THAT YOU CAN’T EXPECT SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU AS PURELY AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF. AT THE END OF THE DAY, WHEN YOU’RE ABLE TO LOVE YOURSELF AS DEEPLY AS YOU LOVE ANOTHER PERSON, THAT’S THE EXACT TIME YOU CAN LOVE SOMEONE WITHOUT BEING VULNERABLE.