LOVING AN INTROVERT

UNDERSTANDING LOVE WITH AN INTROVERT

DO YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF AN INTROVERT ? Or maybe you are in a relationship with someone you consider an introvert ? If you are an introvert it’s easy to assume an extrovert in our life could never understand how we view love. But let’s give them some insight as to how we view love and our relationship. Time to help them out in a bit at deciphering the magical mysterious being we introverts are ! When you love that person, in order to clearly express your needs for alone time to your partner, you must show them that you cares. Everyone has their own “LOVE LANGUAGE,” which is their way of showing the people in their lives that they care deeply about them. These love languages are as varied and unique as the languages people speak from country to country. Even so, there are several actions which, when performed by someone with an introverted personality, should makes you feel especially appreciative in the knowledge that they love you—- so much so that they would go against their usual patterns of behavior.


SIGNS THAT AN INTROVERT CARES FOR YOU

THEY ACCEPT YOUR INVITATION :
Introverts accepts social i nvitations with caution, picking and choosing what’s important to attend. So, if they accept yours, that should tell you something: YOU’RE IMPORTANT. They went out of their way to be there for you, to spend time with you, to celebrate your victories and joys. The fact that they willingly come to an event they expected to be less than enjoyable—- where they knew they would quickly become mentally and emotionally drained—- is a selfless act of love directed towards you personally.
THEY COMMUNICATE ACCORDINGLY :
Many introverts don’t like to speak on the phone, unless they absolutely have to—–perhaps even utilizing the wonderful tool that is the internet in order to takes care of life’s necessities. Depending on each individual introverts’ willingness to speak on the phone, taking your call or calling you of their own accord, can also be a sign of affection. It’s a sign that they actually enjoy speaking with you when they can, even if the phone isn’t preferable face-to-face conversation. The more present and engaged an introvert is with you over the phone, the more likely it is that you’re one of the lucky few who have gained admittance into the introvert’s inner world.
SENSITIVITY TO CONFLICTS :
In fact, many introverts struggle to meet conflict head-on because arguing can be overstimulating and stressful. Tread gently, some introverts find it helpful to write about their feelings or to step away from the conflict for a bit to process things. Don’t take it personally if we need a brief time-out.
ALL THE QUALITY TIME COUNTS :
This means time with you and you only—- no friends, family members, or kids around for a while. We maybe quiet in a group, but we can be masterful at connecting one-on-one. We’ll use this time to try to reconnect you authentically. ” WHEN AN INTROVERT CARES ABOUT SOMEONE, HE OR SHE ALSO WANTS CONTACT, NOT SO MUCH TO KEEP UP WITH THE EVENTS OF THE OTHER PERSON’S LIFE, BUT TO KEEP UP WITH WHAT’S INSIDE : THE EVOLUTION OF IDEAS, VALUES, THOUGHTS, AND FEELINGS.