SEDUCTION

THE THRILL OF DESIRE

IMPACT AND INFLUENCE TO HUMANITY

IT’S ABOUT GETTING EVERY OUNCE of juice out of all experiences. And if you rush things, you can miss the best part. SEDUCTION is about savoring. It is interesting that we associate seduction with sex, when in fact, true seduction is the opposite of sex. SEX is when desire is met. Seduction is not about the culmination or gratification of desire, it is about the thrill of the desire itself. It is the game that is played as the desire comes closer and closer, and being able to maintain that tension of wanting for a long, long time. Selection is the first cousin of “anticipation,” and it’s something that we enjoy on many levels, even when it comes to planning our daily activities. For most of us the bigger the “sexy occasions” are in our lives—- the less frequently they occur. Living a happy, juicy life means extending the pleasure; and we can do that with learning how to enjoy and practice seduction and anticipation.

CONSCIOUSLY TAKING THINGS SLOWLY

THE KEY TO SEDUCTION IS to slow things down. If you slow things down, you will notice that are moving towards something that you thought had wanted in your life then perhaps, not truly seduced by it. Try looking at things through the lens of seduction. What is seducing you ? And how can you slow down every meal in your life so that you can anticipate every delicious encounter ? Whether it is a meal or giving your lover a pleasure. Can you make him or her whimper with desire ? Can you move that slowly ?

IN MEDITATION RETREATS—- IT IS CALLED “SEDUCTION OF SPIRITS.” THAT’S BECAUSE SEDUCTION CAN BE A SPIRITUAL PATH. SEDUCTION IS NOT JUST SOMETHING TO BE DONE WITH OTHER PEOPLE, BUT WITH EVERYTHING WE WANT IN LIFE. SAVOR EVERYTHING, AND USE THE JOY OF SEDUCTION AS A PATH OF PLEASURE. WHATEVER YOU ARE DOING THAT IS ABOUT TO GIVE YOU PLEASURE, SLOW IT DOWN, AND GIVE IT SHORT WAIT.