1. Don’t take off your paint because he calls you beautiful. Take them off because he married you.

2. Don’t open your legs because he says you will make a Good Mother. Open them because he’s ready to be a Good Father after your wedding.

3. Don’t push him away because he has no money today. Hold him close if he’s a vision he is a man of vision.

4. Don’t take him home because he gave you a ride or bought you ice cream and fried rice. Take him home because he treated you like a queen and he is committed to be the love of your life.

5. Don’t go punishing him because of another man hurt you. All men are not there same. If he loves you, give him a chance and he may be the best thing that ever happened to you.

6. Don’t stay all night praying and wondering where to find a good man. Work on your character, be an asset and not a liability.

Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are ready to marry them but at this age most of our girls /sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage. They will be giving excuses like :

1. I am too young for that.

2. Who cares about marriage.

3. I focused on my books 📚.

4. I want to gather money first.

5. Marriage is full of problems.

These are some few statement ladies says at their youthful stage but these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age because at that age, they will be high rate of boys, guys and men coming to them but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who wants to marry them. They are still young to marry right but they are not young to have sex with boys. God is watching.

Then at the age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions :

1. How far

2. Don’t you have one yet?

3. Are you seeing that all your mate are getting married.

4. Are you not planning to get married?.

5. Don’t you know that you are getting older.

But mind you, parents only sees the outside of their daughter, not knowing there is nothing left inside. With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like:

1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?.

2. Hmm, how should I go about it?

3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hands in marriage.

4. They are not even ready to marry yet.

5. Well, God knows the best, I believe in God.

God’s time is the best OK, I agree for argument sake.

Then at 27-30, they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with. They will start looking for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking for their hand in marriage.

You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don’t want to marry them.

At 30-35 her friends will ask her :

1. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?.

2. Is it not getting too late for you?

You will hear her asking you some silly question like.

1. Are you God?

2. Or do want to marry me?

3. Is it a crime to be single?

4. God knows the best for a very one.

At this age 30-35, they will start praying like never before, going from one church to the other. If she is a Muslim, she will start praying and fasting at night.

1. A man who doesn’t want to raise another man’s child but goes ahead to marry a woman that has a child and telling her to leave her child at her parents place instead of a marrying a woman without a child at all.

2. A man who marries a graduate with a degree or diploma only to tell her to quit her Job and take of care of children. If you wanted a housewife. Why not marry a school dropout or a woman of a low class instead of killing dreams of someone who has worked so hard to reach a satin level.

3. A man who is a drunkard but goes ahead to marry a church girl and make her life a living hell. If you are a drunkard, marry your fellow drunkard and drink yourself to madness without stressing anyone.

4. A man who after impregnating a lady, he denies being the owner of the pregnancy. Later after the lady has struggled alone and the child is a bit older, he now wants to be involved with the child.

There is one thing I want you to understand about us ( men)

When you post half-naked pictures of your self on Facebook, be it you doing a sex pose or showing us your cleavage or lying suggestively on your bed.. The only thing you are doing is making us have that lust feeling after you. I know you be excited about the 200 likes you will receive..

When in reality you are excited, one thing you should have in mind is that NONE OF THAT GUYS THAT LIKES THE PHOTOS LOVES YOU!, They have lust feeling for you, they won’t take you to be their wife.

Men both good and bad admire who dress decently and respect themselves. Decent clothing that reveal less about you and make them (men) love and respect you!. Do you think we really care about excessive makeups and face painting? No we don’t.

Be simple, be real, be African….. And the man ordained by the Lord will come after you.

You date this one guy then you have sex with him. After some time you get into argument and instead of solving it you text another guy that have been looking for your attention to ease your pain.

You consider and start planning to date him, he plays his card right and you get bald because you think you are beautiful or too sexy to beg your boyfriend, you can’t face your challenges and always want the easy way out, When shit get real.

1. She lies a lot.

2. She is very secretive about her personal life.

3. She complaints about a very thing you do to make her happy.

4. When she is still attracted to her ex.

Thanks for joining me!

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton